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  1. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Congratulations, Byrus, that's great news! Who did you do it with? I'll probably be getting mine done in Gent with Monstrey's team, they have really top results and I'm pretty surprised they're so unknown tbh. Just mentioning it for guys who might be looking into top surgery in Europe, I was...
  2. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Hey guys just popping in to remind trans people that starting to see a therapist as early as you can is a great idea. Complaint post becase I try to be stealth online as much as possible but I'm out here so why not. Swearing and self-loathing derived from transsexualism. I've been seeing my guy...
  3. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Yeah, I'm pretty excited about it! I'm doing my transition in Belgium, and the requirement in Belgium is that you have to have been feeling trans for at least two years. I've been consciously aware for much longer than that but obviously I can't prove it, but: - I came out to my mother a little...
  4. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Re:pubic hair, I actually quite like pubic hair (and body hair in general) but if my boyfriend wanted to shave then I might whine but it's his body so I'd deal :v Also I guess for Day of Silence you're not meant to talk all day but honestly it's to prove a point to non-queer people so if you're...
  5. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I'm going to let you guys in on a secret: I've only watched the first two episodes of Sherlock and then I lost interest, but then I got a Tumblr and I watched every other episode in .gif form at least thrice over. My problem with Sherlock is Moffat, one of the creators, because he is a boring...
  6. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    House got bisexuals wrong, then they did the annoying gay-tease a lot of mainstream shows do (looking right at you, Sherlock) to appeal to minorities without making the show too gay, I don't expect them to get anything right. House M.d. is a great example of a show that should have quit while...
  7. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Thanks for the comments, everyone. I honestly wouldn't mind what he thought as long as he did treat me as I wish to be treated, but he outright stated he refuses to use the correct pronouns and said: 'think of it this way, i will always call you (birthname)', which is... pretty terrible! And...
  8. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I came out on Facebook since I want to start the whole 'getting hormones asap' thing into gear and I'm not sure what the procedure is in Belgium (and possibly the UK). I'd already come out to my closest friends and they were all great with it, and my mother knows and is incredibly supportive...
  9. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Reading The Sun is like staring directly at its namesake. My eyes are bleeding. I just think it's really weird that it's going to take until 2015 at the latest but I'm just really used to gay marriage being legal that I don't understand how generally decent countries (Britain, France, Germany)...
  10. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I think that's a great option for people who don't identify either way and such, but I hope this doesn't mean that Australian trans people will have to choose this particular gender marking. There isn't anything fundamentally wrong with it but it would sort of suck to be marked as "X" when...
  11. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Pathos: yeah, my mum will probably come around if I ever have the guts to momentarily hurt her for a better general outcome :/ I've actually found a leaflet for parents of trans kids online, and I was thinking of giving that to her. Jolty: my mother will probably think the same thing, and what...
  12. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Er, hey guys. I have a sort of situation that isn't that bad I guess but I'd like advice on it maybe if possible. This post is pretty long and a little TMI but I'll post a tl;dr at the end. So as most of you know, I'm a transman, and I have actually come out to my mother about this, but she's...
  13. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    That is a great way of telling him you love him, though! The poem itself is very nice and it was rather sweet of you. Did you read it to him? I mean when I told my friend I loved him it was right after he abandoned me in front of his house and I was standing in his street in the rain babbling...
  14. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Let them bleed out if they don't contribute to the upper classes, I say. *huff pipe, smiling in full knowledge that I on the other hand am a worthwhile member of society because I have money and that's all that matters* And I'm very glad the Tories are putting up this gay-friendly front but tbh...
  15. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Wait, why do you have to choose between gay rights and legalizing marijuana? It's not like they're mutually exclusive ?_? I mean if the Netherlands is any indication the opposite seems to be true.
  16. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    I like how shocked people are when I'm like 'hey hey buddy hey dude hey bro hans christian andersen was bi :3c'
  17. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Pleasantly surprised at how normal the Daily Mail article is. And yeah, of course gay parents will expose their children to more homosexuality than "conventional" straight families, but only a little, because the children still live in a completely heteronormative world. Almost all the couples...
  18. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    This is a good film but it has some really strong moments so if you're looking for fun times YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED :|
  19. Vladimir Putin's LJ

    The QUILTBAG Club (formerly the LGBT club)

    Are they just completely thick or malicious to a disturbing degree? Good god. I hope things get better, those people sound like complete cocks :/ wtf QUILTBAG is such a good name! :) sadly I don't have much to contribute love-life wise because I'm still stuck in a weird limbo with a guy where...
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